New opportunities... How great they are!

I've noticed that new opportunities scare most people. No one likes change and they think if they step out of their comfort zone everything will crumble around them. Well, that could be true; but it could also be completely and unequivocally false!

Recently, there have been a lot of people in my immediate circle who have new opportunities coming their way. Such as potential jobs, new fellas or ladies and so on. This made me think of how many people are afraid of change. I'm not the biggest fan of change either, but I know embracing it is WAY better than falling onto the ground and kicking at the air as if you're fighting off an annoying older sibling.

Change is usually good and freeing. Although every change has its pros and cons, think about your current situation: How many cons do you focus on daily in your job or relationship? Be honest! You probably think about how he doesn't look like Brad Pitt or that she isn't a supermodel. As long as you focus on those things you are A.) completely shallow and 2.) unhappy with your life.

So my challenge to you is cut it loose! Whatever your current issue, spend at least half an hour today fixing it for yourself. No one said change is easy and that it wouldn't hurt but, do you really want to spend the rest of your life wallowing in your own self pity while you're stuck in the same place? Or do you want to be free to make your own choices?